I have been recently hacking my life. Changing the way I do things, taking risks and accepting the lessons learned by my "failures". This excellent post says a lot.
When it comes to life, you have to do it yourself. There is no other way. Family, friends, and community are wonderful, but ultimately no one can live your life for you. You’re in the driver’s seat, even if you’re following someone else’s map. That’s just the deal.